HOW TO (MORE) EASILY FALL ASLEEP

HOW TO (MORE) EASILY FALL ASLEEP

So you finally made it to bed. You’ve done your bedtime routine and turned off all the lights. You’re exhausted, fully prepared for sleep, but your mind won’t stop racing — overwhelmed with thoughts, feelings, and to-dos. The longer it takes you to fall asleep, the more anxious and stressed out you become, which, in turn, makes it even harder for you to drift off to sleep. Once your head hits the pillow, how do you actually relax into a peaceful slumber so that you receive the full benefit of a restful night?

Check out this week’s blog for a few ways to clear your head and surrender yourself to the pleasures of sleep.

3 MINDSETS THAT HOLD US BACK FROM SELF-CARE

3 MINDSETS THAT HOLD US BACK FROM SELF-CARE

Our hobbies, passions, and the things we do for pure relaxation fuel and restore us physically, emotionally, and even spiritually in the most efficient way imaginable. Renewal activities provide care and nurturance for our souls — providing us with the energy we need to get through everything work and life throws at us. Yet, even though we know that and crave time for renewal, it can be very hard to make it happen.

Back-to-Back Meetings: Productivity Insanity

 Back-to-Back Meetings:  Productivity Insanity

Let’s talk about the global challenge of back-to-back meetings. In many (dare I say most) companies, back-to-back meetings have become part of the time culture. The last three years of remote work have exacerbated the problem exponentially. How does anyone get any work done? What is the impact on productivity?

How to Structure Your To-Do List

How to Structure Your To-Do List

Whether it’s paper or digital, there are a few principles I recommend to structure your to-do's so your list becomes approachable. The great unlock is to remember that a to-do is not connected to a when rarely gets done. Each to-do has to get assigned a day or a time. Otherwise, you're just hoping to do it when you remember it or when you have a free moment (which doesn’t ever seem to happen). Instead, with just a few actionable tips, your to-do list can transform into a realistic game plan to get your most important tasks done.

How to Tame Interruptions (that Derail your Best Laid Plans)

How to Tame Interruptions (that Derail your Best Laid Plans)

We shouldn’t blindly agree to random requests that will take us away from higher priorities, or are outside our designated lane or expertise (and therefore the most inefficient thing for us to spend time on).   In reality, we often want to say no but say yes because we are caught off guard. We get tripped up in an effort to be good team players.  There is a way to manage unexpected requests with grace and logic, while also being a great team member.

Define Your Daily Interruption Ratio

Define Your Daily Interruption Ratio

Instead of giving up on planning altogether, the key is to recognize that not one hundred percent of your day is in your control.   The solution is to factor in what I call your Daily Interruption Ratio- what percentage of your day needs to be left open for the inevitable interruptions that really do need to be handled the same day. By factoring in the reality, you can plan your days realistically and avoid having your best laid plans derailed.  

How to Reset Healthy Habits

 How to Reset Healthy Habits

What gets in the way?  I think it’s that we remember the days when we exercised (or ate well) regularly, and nothing could keep us from staying on plan. The rewards were so powerful and immediate, our motivation was unshakeable at that time. And now, we are waiting for that same feeling to come back to motivate us to go out the door.  But when the engine has been cold for a while, it’s hard to summon that feeling.

The Advantages of Paper vs Digital Planning

Each new year provides us with a fresh start and renewed resolve to get organized, be productive and stay on track with our goals. We know we need calendars and to-do lists to keep ourselves on time and on task.  But in our increasingly fast-paced, tech-saturated world, it can be hard to decide between digital options and old-school paper.

The goal, of course, is to find a system that works for you.  How do we define whether a planning system “works”?  You use it to capture all of your meetings and to-do’s, nothing falls through the cracks, and you refer to it consistently to guide how you spend every day. 

Research shows that paper planning has many advantages, and appeals to people of all ages.  Many people whose schedules are in the cloud for sharing with colleagues still find it beneficial to supplement their online calendar with a paper based planning and notetaking system.

What are some of the advantages of paper vs digital planning?  Here a just a few of the (science-backed) ways: 

  • Paper planning helps you remember. The very act of physically writing pen (or pencil) to paper often emblazons the task on your memory, making it easier to recall (even if you never look at the list again.) Multiple studies, including this 2021 Japanese study published in Neuroscience News, have found that recall is stronger when we write longhand. When we type into a tablet or laptop, learning is impaired due to shallower processing.  

  • Paper planning helps you focus. Going onto a device to use a Calendar or Task App means entering a carnival of temptations every time. You inevitably end up lost in email, social media or other distractions- the opposite of getting things done. By contrast, writing on paper forces a necessary screen break which allows us to access the deeper parts of the brain involved in strategy and decision making.

  • Paper planning helps you prioritize. How we fill our days is how we fill our lives. Yet, once tasks become dots on a screen, they seem to feel “cheap” and disposable like every other word we can type and delete on a computer. Handwriting your to-do’s requires a commitment. Re-writing incomplete to-dos over and over forces you to consider the true value of a task and what's getting in your way.

  • Paper planning helps you fulfill your goals.  In three different experiments involving over 1,079 people, Columbia Business School (2022) research found that individuals who used paper calendars developed higher quality plans and fulfilled them at a higher success rate.  In fact, paper calendar users completed 53% of their plans vs. digital users who completed 33% of their plans. The conclusion was that paper planning enables the user to see the big picture and create more detailed and cohesive plans that took into account how scheduled events will interact with or impact each other so you can plan ahead.

  • Paper planning provides a visual record of what you got done—fueling your sense of accomplishment. It also helps you to account for where your time has gone, evaluate your workload, and gain insights on what changes you can make to delegate or approach tasks more efficiently moving forward.

Paper planning is surely not for everyone.  But if you are gravitating toward paper for note-taking and planning, perhaps you now have a better understanding of why.  As human experience and studies continue to reveal, there is still a place for paper planning in our digital world.  A paper planner does not replace all the amazing things technology can do for us. But discovering (or rediscovering) a paper planner’s unique and irreplaceable functions can be a tool to help you focus and prioritize.